Most of the youth is sometimes feeling confusion what to do about the marriage. The broken marriages and divorces are increasing day by day. Some thought that love marriage is better than arranged but when they see the couple having no affection with each other they get puzzled. This is also happens with love marriages thinking life as a game the couple choose the life partner and decide the choice after the marriages. The dating is dishearten in the youth they compel to do the arrange marriages. Now the marriages not only done between the family and also the couple. In India the numbers of arranged marriages are very high, it shows the success rates of arrange one.
Vandana kulakarni the founder of saath-saath started the organization in which she encourages the married couple to discuss about the problems and have the solution. It gives the forum or dating time to the couple so that couple gets familiar with each other for taking their life decision. This type organization is not found anywhere in the world. It is only in Maharashtra which has taken the steps to protect the thousands of couple to adopt the marriage decision blindly jumping right in.

No body can deny the fact that Indian women have got the position in the home and her profession both. She is walking step by step along with men. Now the women are become the backbone of big companies. The feministic authors helped the women to get their rights, by writing various facts about the women which she can not express herself to the world. Though the gender sensitizing is done in the job sector but the position of girls is inadequate as it is before many years. All the women of middle class or lower middle caste are chosen for the beauty when marriage proposal comes. Beauty is considered as fairness and usually darkness is not considered as beauty. Every man wants to get married with fair and beautiful girl.
In arranged marriages the element of colour plays an important role except when there is love marriage and in cases of dowry system. Some of the men put the proposal that their wife will not work outside the home after the marriage so her career gets doomed. In the urban areas this problem is tolerated to some extent but the condition is worst in the rural areas of India.

According to the stories by our grand mother and father and some after reading the articles about the Indian shadi there are the four stages or parts of any human being.e.i in which the second is grahast period. In this period the human is having the married life. First the parent selects the bride for groom and matches the kundli. This is the way that the parent matches the behavior of the two by seeing their planets. This is most old system coming from the mahabharat and Ramayana period. It is also said that ram and sita are having the kundli that matches with 32 qualities means that pair is made for each other and there would not be any difference in there behavior and the marriage life is good.
In Hindu marriage not only the family of bride and groom but also the relatives friend and other members of the nearby area are involved in the marriage. Other day for the engagement is decided before marriage it is called sagai, misri or ring ceremony. On that day they exchange the ring .on that daygirl painted the hand with mehndi and write his husband name on her hand. It will strengthen the bond of eternal love.
On the shadi day dance ceremony haldi ceremony is done before marriage in halsi the relative put kacchi haldi on the bride and groom and it will make the shine on the face as well as darkens the colour of mehndi all the relatives enjoy by dancing.thes custom of dance is mostly done in Punjab and Gujarat. The home is decorated with flowers and light. On the marriage shubh lagn means the pandit search the safe and good period that makes the marriage success, the 7 vows are done between the bride and groom. in this period the worship of air water land heat (agni) with all the devata is done.
Than the bride and the groom takes the ashirwad of the family and farewell of groom takes place with lot of tears in the eyes of her relatives.
Hindu marriage custom are the mark of its diversified tradition and religion that’s why the western countries like our custom and wanted to adopt these custom to make their wedding unforgettable.

Today Indians are also coming out of the cage of caste. Our youth have finally decided to do what they want and what is right. Intercaste marriage is the marriage, which is done between the couple of two different castes. If we think about the Intercaste marriage it means the angry mother and father. Our parents who ever thought the dream of making the marriage of his son and daughter will never want that his children will do the marriage without the permission of parents with the different caste girl or boy.
After coming of MNCs in India the come with their professional culture. They give the promotion and rewards irrespective of the gender so most of the female spent most of the time in the office and this makes them closer to their colleague. Also in the metropolitan city the individual working outside the native place are working lonely so the helping hand and shoulder will easily attract them. Offices are become the garden of romance.
The other people who do not find there lover in the offices search their partners in the web and busy in lunchtime hours today the chat facility is in mobile phones also .the web called FRENZO available in all web available sets are free to talk in the web. The web has made the searches so easy so that a person sitting in Jabalpur can have the life partner of UK and US. Today generation is become fast it doesn’t takes the time in taking the decision. It is seen that the offspring coming from inert caste marriages are very sensitive and they can bear the shocks more easily .it is because they saw the conditions that how their parents struggle a lot that’s why they will not in the favors of Intercaste marriage
India is the land of nonviolence and peace .the practice of theses type of practices disturbs the environment with the stress and tension .so we should take the decision after thinking of parents as well as fore coming generation.
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Nubian marriage among various international recent contacts, near Aswan, Egypt

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