If I believe of the Buddhist tradition made me assume a philosophy of silence and focus on small things. So I believe that to celebrate the wedding according to their rite may be, for those who think an intimate and deep. Unlike other religions indian shaadi for Buddhist wedding is not necessary: fans might make a decision to merge with an easy civil ceremony. Those who want to give the union a deeper meaning must know that the ceremony starts reciting the Hobe chapter and the Gage, then a few minutes Adamou.

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Indian Wedding is a great combination of customs and traditions. There are various traditional rituals are performed during wedding ceremony. The people of different community, cast and religion live together and these all follow their own wedding tradition. This diversity in wedding ceremonies gives special significance to Indian weddings. The most noticeable fact about Indian wedding is that it is ceremony of coming together of two individuals and two souls.

Besides it, Indian wedding is the ceremony of come together two families, two culture and two tradition. There is great diversity in India especially in wedding traditions that can be easily observed across the country causes of geographical, linguistic, religious and cultural differences. Despite much diversity in marriage tradition in India some common factors are also in wedding ceremony. Each part of India and in all religion wedding ceremony is celebrated with the most elaborate manner.

All pre and post traditional wedding rituals are performed with faith and dedication means engagement to Vidai. Bride and groom’s family invites their friends, relatives and other more people that are closer to them, to be a part of this big day of bride and groom’s life. Thus Indian wedding ceremony is celebrated with pomp and show and open new ways of life for newly wed couple to live together with love and romance.

In the season of Indian marriage, the fashion of cloths jewelry and cosmetics market takes the place of the top market. Indian wedding is having the various customs and tradition that is why only one dress can not fulfill your need. You need the different dress in the Engagement, Haldi, Sangeet Ceremony, Reception, Vows, and Mooh Dekhai. So have you prepared your wardrobe with all these dresses and matching jewelry? In this article few tips for choosing the dress may remove your tension little bit. In the sangeet ceremony, you may wear the free style lancha that makes you comfortable in dancing. The tissue or zardosi lancha with simple design will enhance your look and the guest will appreciate your elegant design. In mehndi ceremony try to wear sari in dark and green shade that gives you the traditional look and the mehndi stain will not discolor your precious sari. In the haldi try to wear the dress that is yellow in colour and easily washable. In Wedding, you may try the dark maroon and red Ghagra with the work of kundan and zardosi. At the night time you will have the elegant look and guest eyes stick on you. You can try the western out fits in your honey moon with easy loading.

Indian marriage is the subject of custom tradition and love. The role of jewelry in Indian marriage plays a vital role or you can say that it walks side by side. At the time of ring ceremony the gold ring is exchange between the spouse and they are bind in the holy marriage relation. The main jewelry that is important in the marriage is Mangalsutra. Mangalsutra is mark of marriage for the Indian women. It represents the long relation and life of husband. The pendant must be gold plated and the thread is changed according to the different custom. The south Indian women wear the yellow thread with the Mangalsutra. Most of the Indian women particularly in the central and western part, wear black bead as sign the Mangalsutra. The black colour destroys the evil of the husband. The nose ring of the gold is also one important jewelry. It is basically important in the high cast and some tribal do not follow the custom. At the time of marriage, particularly in the Bengali marriage the sindoor is filled with gold ornament in the brides head. Gold gets its shine after heating in the kiln so gold is considered as the purest metal and that is the reason the gold is having the prominent place in the Indian marriage.

Marriage is the custom that joins two people together in the emotional as well as inter-personal relation. The charm of the Indian marriage is increased when it is seen from the eyes of the others. Thousands of people come to India, every year, to understand and enjoy the Indian marriage. Indian feels great when they see the respect for India custom in the others eyes. The curiosity is increased when the hundreds of relatives showered the joy and love on the married couple. The Brahmin’s family does the thread ceremony means Janeu ceremony before the marriage. This thread means the holy thread that is mark of the purity of the soul. The relatives and all are busy in planning the marriage procedure and the shopping. Beautiful sari and jewelry is purchased. The bride families do every thing to make the good expression on the groom family. They do everything for their respect and welcome of the entire guest. The groom is sits in the worship of god at the door of the bride’s home and when he takes the barat. After that Vermala is done and the bride and groom are ready to make the seven vows of marriage.

It sounds very exciting that a boy is coming to see you but it dishearten to a girl when he deny liking the girl. Why the Indian marriage is sometimes plays with the sentiments. The girl is compelled to do the marriage with the boy, she doesn’t like. The girls leave its mother fostering home to the stranger home. So like any other country the Indian tradition and custom has some pros and cons which would be very difficult to understand. The sentiment of girl’s marriage fills the eyes with joy and the farewell of the bride fill every one eyes with the tears and the marriage. The various aspects of the Indian marriage make it differs from the other entire nation. The small traditions from the teej pooja to karvachauth make every woman pray for his husband for his long life. This small festival and cultures compel the thousands of tourist to come to India and enjoy the incredible Indian tradition. The sentiment that can feel by and Indian lady can be defined to the others with Indian marriage .No body can taste its taste completely except an Indian lady.

Most of the youth is sometimes feeling confusion what to do about the marriage. The broken marriages and divorces are increasing day by day. Some thought that love marriage is better than arranged but when they see the couple having no affection with each other they get puzzled. This is also happens with love marriages thinking life as a game the couple choose the life partner and decide the choice after the marriages. The dating is dishearten in the youth they compel to do the arrange marriages. Now the marriages not only done between the family and also the couple. In India the numbers of arranged marriages are very high, it shows the success rates of arrange one.
Vandana kulakarni the founder of saath-saath started the organization in which she encourages the married couple to discuss about the problems and have the solution. It gives the forum or dating time to the couple so that couple gets familiar with each other for taking their life decision. This type organization is not found anywhere in the world. It is only in Maharashtra which has taken the steps to protect the thousands of couple to adopt the marriage decision blindly jumping right in.

Indian marriages are full of fun and excitement. Thousand of relatives come in the marriage .They shower the flower at the time of marriage. But after some time they started blaming each other. The spouse abuses each other in the court who has taken the oath of living each other forever. In India also the marriages are broken daily. In Delhi only 10 couples broke their relation by the divorce daily. But it is seen in India the only one country having the divorce rate of 1.1%, wheras the other country like Sweden and united stare the percentage is above 50. This data is taken from the divorce demography. The only country renowned for its name for custom and tradition that made the endless relation between the married couple. This percentage is lower before some years ago below 1%. The reason behind this may be the freedom for the abusive relationship which becomes trend of the higher class society. They have DINK (double income no kids) formals so have no responsibility for the kids. Stress modern life slowly filling the poison in the life of hundreds of married couple. The change in the gender role is also the one of the reason that makes the difference and competition in the married partners. The women nature reducing the original quality of sacrifice and adopted the western culture and protecting their self esteem.

Due to the empowerment and adaptation of western culture inside the India the number of divorces is increasing day by day. The number of divorce case is increasing in Mumbai and Ahmadabad. The divorces case is increased by 40% in Mumbai. Average 10 cases are registered in the court for divorce only in Delhi. The cases are filed for taking the alimony from her husband as the sign the women empowerment for becoming the self dependent and independent. These marriages are broken because the spouse does not believe each other. Most of the couple do not have affection and love between each other and they just bear each other because their parents arranged their marriages. The decision is taken by the elders and if the relation fails to work the husband is going to give the alimony. Alimony is become the most important element in the mind of the women. The divorce makes the stress among the thousand of married couple with their children and the suicide among the married couple is increasing day by day. Now the alimony proved that it not makes the women empower but the element of marriage breaker. The Supreme Court judge “Arijit Pasayath” said this fact that the Hindu marriage law is breaking the families rather to join them.

No body can deny the fact that Indian women have got the position in the home and her profession both. She is walking step by step along with men. Now the women are become the backbone of big companies. The feministic authors helped the women to get their rights, by writing various facts about the women which she can not express herself to the world. Though the gender sensitizing is done in the job sector but the position of girls is inadequate as it is before many years. All the women of middle class or lower middle caste are chosen for the beauty when marriage proposal comes. Beauty is considered as fairness and usually darkness is not considered as beauty. Every man wants to get married with fair and beautiful girl.
In arranged marriages the element of colour plays an important role except when there is love marriage and in cases of dowry system. Some of the men put the proposal that their wife will not work outside the home after the marriage so her career gets doomed. In the urban areas this problem is tolerated to some extent but the condition is worst in the rural areas of India.