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Wedding as per the Christian faith is clear as the merger between man and woman as predestined by God. This gained further legitimacy when Jesus set forth his basic ideology on wedding by bringing together two vital passages from Genesis. Jesus explained wedding as a relationship, a union, so intimate and genuine that ‘the two become one flesh.’

Rituals and Customs

All foremost Christian groups agree to marriage as usual and appropriate. Christian weddings are hypothetical to be held in the midst of all. Even the Bible explained a marriage as ordained by God and an instance for delight. Diverse sects in Christianity have diverse views on marriage. They prescribe diverse conditions for couples to get wedded or not.

They have different rules for when a person should get wedded and what must the incentive be.In Indian weddings, like other Indian religious, Indian Christian wedding also is a great event. It is extend for many days and begins with an engagement rite.

Some of the customs are alike to a Hindu Weddings, like on the eve of the wedding Haldaat ceremony takes place in both the brides as well as the grooms’ house. This particular ceremony relates to be relevant the paste of turmeric and sandalwood on both the bride and the groom.

The Christian wedding takes place in the church and is oversee usually by the Parish Priest. Customarily, the bride’s father walks down with the girl towards the altar, although the bridegroom waits there patiently. The bridegroom is ushered by his best man while the bride has her maid of tribute during this ritual. The priest accepts the marriage swears of both the groom and the bride.

Marriage is the custom that joins two people together in the emotional as well as inter-personal relation. The charm of the Indian marriage is increased when it is seen from the eyes of the others. Thousands of people come to India, every year, to understand and enjoy the Indian marriage. Indian feels great when they see the respect for India custom in the others eyes. The curiosity is increased when the hundreds of relatives showered the joy and love on the married couple. The Brahmin’s family does the thread ceremony means Janeu ceremony before the marriage. This thread means the holy thread that is mark of the purity of the soul. The relatives and all are busy in planning the marriage procedure and the shopping. Beautiful sari and jewelry is purchased. The bride families do every thing to make the good expression on the groom family. They do everything for their respect and welcome of the entire guest. The groom is sits in the worship of god at the door of the bride’s home and when he takes the barat. After that Vermala is done and the bride and groom are ready to make the seven vows of marriage.

One thing that is important at the time of Indian Engagement that is very important it is Engagement ring that is sign of beginning married life’s both family come togater and boy and girl change their rings together and both families give some gifts each others from that times all members of families start all arrangements of wedding and boy and girl start to think about each other that is a good custom in Indian wedding in Indian language its called sagai it mean boy and girl after that cant think about other one and always be together and never go away from each other. Sagai give chance to both families to make good relations and understanding for each other’s. Than two families understand each other so from there’s starts good relations that work all life with best compliments and love.

Agni is the most holy thing treated in the all the religion. That’s why in the wedding time Agni dev is invited to be the witness of the saat phere for the bridegroom. As all the Hindu marriage are having some difference in the tradition but saat pher, kanyadaan, haldi and mehndi customs are almost done in all the marriages. Saat phere are also called saptapadi all the phere are done with some mantras and they are having some meaning and worship to make the good life of bridegroom. So here I try to discuss the meaning of the phere shortly.
First vow-bridegroom takes the oath that they will accept the family of each other and always be respectful with them. The bride always tries to avoid the things that harm their family.
Second vow-they will always maintain the love and trust between them to live the good life.
Third vow-they will always be the partner of joy as well as sorrows as they become the Ardhangini of the other means the half body part of other
Fourth vow-it said that you would always fulfill the responsibility towards your family.
Fifth vow-You will teach your children with the love trust and fulfill their all responsibility
Sixth vow- healthy, self control and life is full of peace.
Seventh vow-they will become their life partners for the whole life with love.

Than after doing g the phere the bride and groom takes the ashirwad means the blesses of all and than brides vidai is done than bride started the journey of his new home.

Successful Love Marriages are a rarity these days. The thing is that real Love and Compatibility is hard to come by in the contemporary hustle and bustle of life. People have become so career oriented, that they have little or no time to think about love. The very definition of love has changed; it’s become more of Carnal Love; rather than anything else. As long as one’s physical needs are satisfied; it’s alright. It’s too many women; with too many pills these days. On the other hand Men simply shoot to thrill. You find both men and women these days saying “I eat when I feel hungry” and its quite understandable what they mean.
However, there are some real life successful Love Marriages which have become world famous. For instance the Love Marriage of the all famed John Bon Giovi, better known Bon Jovi. He married his high-school sweetheart and is happily married till date and is a very loving and caring Father too. The other successful Love marriage is that of Angus Young; from the greatest Rock Band ever AC/DC. In Bollywood there is no better example than that of Amitabh Bacchan and Jaya Bahaduri. They have been married for over 32 years now and their Love Marriage has stood the test of time. Infact, with each passing year their bond has strengthened.

If we will write about Indian tradition than it become the myth because every Indian custom has some meaning and the way to do the same. The word suggests that kanyadaan is giving the daughter. A daughter is just like the paddy that grows on the different place and harvest on the different place means daughter will grow in the motherhouse and after the marriage, the husband home is the home of the daughter. In this custom the father give the bride to the groom’s hand (called hastmilap) and that time the daughter is becomes others. In this system the groom is considered as the great lord (bagman) Vishnu. There will be a shower of flowers and rice. Flowers make the life full of fragrance and rice represent the akshat means that never lost The groom takes the right hand of bride and takes the oath to take the responsibility of the bride as their beloved. It is the sad moment for the parents when their right is lost on his daughter and they will not see her in his home. So after taking the vows and ashirwad the bride started her new life of her own home.

A live in relationship is a type of engagement between a man and a woman who live together without getting married, for a particular period. For find out that they are compatible in all respect or not. In case they find that there is no work out quit, smoothly as there is no bond in the relationship and whenever the couples want they can separate without any sense of guilt. So this type of arrangement is definitely good as it gives enough chance to both parties to understand each other.   Â

That such a thing is happening in society is unthinkable. Such as we are going back to prehistoric days when people produced children without getting married. If live in relationship would be acceptable by more and more then definitely one day the entire social system will crumble and we will go back to the Stone Age. Acutely such arrangements are a slur on society.

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Wedding ceremony is an important event of our life and everyone want to make it memorable. When we plan a wedding we should keep in mind some ideas which help we can make it successful. There are some wedding tips that we need to done and on the other hand some work must not be done in wedding.
You should do
Plan
Plan is most necessary in wedding, your plan save your time and give enough time to thing about all wedding related activities to do, it also decrease your spare expenditure.
Budget
Budget always decides weddings pomp and show. You should not spend huge money to wedding even though you should have separate budget for everything like dress, reception, decoration and others.
You should don’t do
Don’t Rush
Don’t hurry to make any decision about wedding work sometimes it may be fatal for you to do so. You should be careful to choosing photographers, caterers and decorators.
The Guess
The guests are very important in wedding but sometimes it may be reason of over expenditure so you should invite the guest those understand important of wedding and are closer you.
 
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Grooms don’t be conscious in regards of their look as brides. Indian grooms also believe on simple look therefore they don’t pay extra attention on their overall look. Although with changing time, grooms are realizing that they should dress up perfectly so that they also looked handsome such as beautiful bride look.                    Â
Now a days there are different types of trends for groom dress. Indian Grooms have choice of selecting their wedding dress to put on wedding day in which they could fell handsome on wedding day. Grooms dress and hair style should be match on personality.
There are several types of services which make a man to perfect groom like Groom Wedding Sehra, Groom Wedding Turban, Groom Accessories, Groom Hair Care, Groom Skin Care, Groom Shoes, Groom Ethnic wear and Groom Shervani. Groom and Bride both to be centre point of attraction on wedding day and all eyes set on their face so grooms should be perfect looking. There are many designers those design dress especially for grooms and there are too much variety is available in groom dress market.                              Â
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