Agni is the most holy thing treated in the all the religion. That’s why in the wedding time Agni dev is invited to be the witness of the saat phere for the bridegroom. As all the Hindu marriage are having some difference in the tradition but saat pher, kanyadaan, haldi and mehndi customs are almost done in all the marriages. Saat phere are also called saptapadi all the phere are done with some mantras and they are having some meaning and worship to make the good life of bridegroom. So here I try to discuss the meaning of the phere shortly.
First vow-bridegroom takes the oath that they will accept the family of each other and always be respectful with them. The bride always tries to avoid the things that harm their family.
Second vow-they will always maintain the love and trust between them to live the good life.
Third vow-they will always be the partner of joy as well as sorrows as they become the Ardhangini of the other means the half body part of other
Fourth vow-it said that you would always fulfill the responsibility towards your family.
Fifth vow-You will teach your children with the love trust and fulfill their all responsibility
Sixth vow- healthy, self control and life is full of peace.
Seventh vow-they will become their life partners for the whole life with love.

Than after doing g the phere the bride and groom takes the ashirwad means the blesses of all and than brides vidai is done than bride started the journey of his new home.

Successful Love Marriages are a rarity these days. The thing is that real Love and Compatibility is hard to come by in the contemporary hustle and bustle of life. People have become so career oriented, that they have little or no time to think about love. The very definition of love has changed; it’s become more of Carnal Love; rather than anything else. As long as one’s physical needs are satisfied; it’s alright. It’s too many women; with too many pills these days. On the other hand Men simply shoot to thrill. You find both men and women these days saying “I eat when I feel hungry” and its quite understandable what they mean.
However, there are some real life successful Love Marriages which have become world famous. For instance the Love Marriage of the all famed John Bon Giovi, better known Bon Jovi. He married his high-school sweetheart and is happily married till date and is a very loving and caring Father too. The other successful Love marriage is that of Angus Young; from the greatest Rock Band ever AC/DC. In Bollywood there is no better example than that of Amitabh Bacchan and Jaya Bahaduri. They have been married for over 32 years now and their Love Marriage has stood the test of time. Infact, with each passing year their bond has strengthened.

If we will write about Indian tradition than it become the myth because every Indian custom has some meaning and the way to do the same. The word suggests that kanyadaan is giving the daughter. A daughter is just like the paddy that grows on the different place and harvest on the different place means daughter will grow in the motherhouse and after the marriage, the husband home is the home of the daughter. In this custom the father give the bride to the groom’s hand (called hastmilap) and that time the daughter is becomes others. In this system the groom is considered as the great lord (bagman) Vishnu. There will be a shower of flowers and rice. Flowers make the life full of fragrance and rice represent the akshat means that never lost The groom takes the right hand of bride and takes the oath to take the responsibility of the bride as their beloved. It is the sad moment for the parents when their right is lost on his daughter and they will not see her in his home. So after taking the vows and ashirwad the bride started her new life of her own home.

A live in relationship is a type of engagement between a man and a woman who live together without getting married, for a particular period. For find out that they are compatible in all respect or not. In case they find that there is no work out quit, smoothly as there is no bond in the relationship and whenever the couples want they can separate without any sense of guilt. So this type of arrangement is definitely good as it gives enough chance to both parties to understand each other.   Â

That such a thing is happening in society is unthinkable. Such as we are going back to prehistoric days when people produced children without getting married. If live in relationship would be acceptable by more and more then definitely one day the entire social system will crumble and we will go back to the Stone Age. Acutely such arrangements are a slur on society.

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The initial stage of a relationship can be tense. So don’t worry or feel nerves about your put on but make sure about precaution. when you are out for your first date ,you should aware of this no matter for how long you were dating with each other through internet .
Things must go right by taking some tips such as your friend should have knowledge about your meeting place, secondly driving individually and you should arrange your first date in to a park or any public place these are some easy strategy you can use.

With some simple planning internet dating safety can be maintained. Once you chat with the person online or you have a talk on a phone mobile, after this next step is meeting the person. If you are strong-minded you are ready to go this stage, apply this as first date suggestion.

• Use separate vehicles to go and conduct your first date in a public meeting place.
• Inform your friends about your meeting place and when you will be back to home.
• Never meet in lonely place or except the invitation of meeting at home.
• If you feel pressure in any way without delaying end the date.
• Do not get drunk it should cause bad impression to your dated person .

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The long relationship is a special quality to make it most recent and understanding is the quality, which helps to create a stronger relationship with your life partner in future and for marriage life.

If you want to make long life relationship then some tips for you, it demands time and communication for making deep love, when you talk long time then heightened in romantic relationship when two people are saying something and committing one another for a long time.

In long relationship, you know investment of time is essential because when you invest time with another then another quality is build up is trust. Trust is the most important factor and it is necessary for whole life in your future. If you have trust in your partner then your deep relationship can grow.

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