Sari, it is the icon for the Indian women. Not only Indian but also in western countries the women has adopted the sari. To become the most beautiful Indian women you can wear the sari. As the fashion changes the outfits also change but sari has become the special women wear. Indian women are wearing since 5000 years. In rig ved also there is a mention of the sari. There are many types of sari according to the state such as chiffon, Georgette Mysore silk chanderi and chignon.
Few tips to select the sari

Women that are fatty can wear the chiffon, chignon and Mysore silk so that they look slimmer. But do not wear the south cotton or any cotton sari you looks bulky on this outfit.
Women who are short in height should wear the short border or no border sari and avoid the big border sari otherwise they will look shorter.
The women who are slimmer may wear the tissue, organza, cotton tusssar sari.
Dark colour women can wear the dark colour such as maroon blue and fair women can wear orange pink etc.
Don’t buy the sari of big prints in cotton. Buy the small prints in the cotton while big print in chiffon.

Just like any other jewelry the Kwiat bridal collection has given the wide range of diamond and platinum rings with full range of sizes and shape.The local Indian vendors such as tanishque and de beers have given the significant collection of gems and the jewelry.

Scot kay, tacori, Diana classicsimong, peter storm and ritani are some leading companies that are preparing the large variety of ring in gold diamond and platinum. They made male as well as female rings for marriage and birthday. There is also some colour shades in the rings that is citrus style and vivid orange hues. A couple has purchase two ring. The male ahs purchased the ring from tiffany and co and the female has purchase it from Manhattan diamond district both are happy to have their beautiful diamond rings.John greed design Pandora has also a beautiful collection of male rings with zirconium tungsten, platinum, titanium, gold and silver. It is having the largest collection of tungsten and titanium ring in United Kingdom. The main reason to give this selection is for two reasons. First is that titanium is the strong metal that gives strength to the male and secondly it is always found in the same colour and appearance so make the male consistent.

One thing that is important at the time of Indian Engagement that is very important it is Engagement ring that is sign of beginning married life’s both family come togater and boy and girl change their rings together and both families give some gifts each others from that times all members of families start all arrangements of wedding and boy and girl start to think about each other that is a good custom in Indian wedding in Indian language its called sagai it mean boy and girl after that cant think about other one and always be together and never go away from each other. Sagai give chance to both families to make good relations and understanding for each other’s. Than two families understand each other so from there’s starts good relations that work all life with best compliments and love.

In India today the notion of love cum arranged marriage is swift gaining popularity. The notion of love after marriage is an attractive feeling. Our Indian culture is immobile not so higher they like better love after marriage instead of love before marriage.

In a wedded life there are diverse phase of love. The romantic love, which live right after marriage is not the same twenty years after marriage.

The sway of the western society has started an innovative style of dating in the metros of our country. Young girls and boys going out for date with the person they resembling is a hottest style now in the cities. But this notion of falling in love is not so recognizable in the interiors of our country. Unmoving in villages people prefer arrange wedding.

So in case of love marriages you obtain the time to know each other, you spend time together; you love each other and then get married but in arrange wedding it is completely a diverse tale all together. You start fond a being after you get married.

It may sound contradictory to somebody who doesn’t consider in the notion of love after marriage but this is what used to occur prior and even event now in most of the cases. Some people even say that arranged cum love marriage is more victorious then love marriage.

Today’s Indian bride is extremely much aware concerning her look. They desire a balanced look with appropriate hairstyle, dress and make-up. At the same time they also don’t wish for amazing overdone. Nowadays diverse sorts of hairstyles are finished in the beauty parlors.

Depending on the traits, height, face formation you can choose a fastidious hairstyle for you. Hair coloring is now in craze. New style for hair coloring is accessible in the parlors.

Generally girls are going for scorching shades like flaming red browns to blonde red coppers and stencil coloring. Appropriate hair color can give you a fully new look. You can match your hair color according to your complexion.

If you are fair go for vivid colors and if you have a dark complexion than it is superior to attempt dark shades like dark brown, burgundy, copper. Amongst the innovative stylish colors are Iris copper, auburn gold, red passion, dark cherry, matt, purple vision, silver ice, beige. But it is enhanced to evade these colors.

It is always superior to go for sober and dull colors. If your hair is already tinted than you can use transparent color gloss, which can darken lighten or brighten hair tones. To give an ideal wedding look it is significant to match three things and that is faultless right hairstyle, haircut, which matches your traits and hairstyle suitable for your facial formation.

Bengal is famous for the beauty, their culture and macchi bhat. Bengali girls are renowned for the beautiful eyes and hair. The marriages are too good to see. I have attended the shaadi of one of my friend and it was the joy for me to see such a beautiful Indian culture. They are the strong worshipper of the Devi Durga that’s why they give her fish. Usually the marriage are arranged by the ghotoks.they are the matchmakers who makes the contact between the family
Engagement ceremony-it is called patri patra ceremony .In this ceremony the bride and the groom family give the marriage card to the other family and then the engagement or ring ceremony is done.
Decoration –Alpana the rangoli with all the colours are made at the door to welcome the guest.
Vridhi ceremony-In this ceremony the ancestors are worshipped for the good marriage life of the bride groom
Dodhi mangal –In these ceremony the 10 women give the water to the bride or the bathe than they are offered the curd with the rice and fish. This ceremony is done in both the houses
Wedding Piris-this is the wooden plank decorated by the relatives in which the bride and groom are sits.
Tattavas-it is the ceremony of exchanging the gifts between the bride and groom
Then bride wear the red banarsi sari and the groom wear the cotton dhoti kurat and marriage with the saat phere and vidai is done.

Agni is the most holy thing treated in the all the religion. That’s why in the wedding time Agni dev is invited to be the witness of the saat phere for the bridegroom. As all the Hindu marriage are having some difference in the tradition but saat pher, kanyadaan, haldi and mehndi customs are almost done in all the marriages. Saat phere are also called saptapadi all the phere are done with some mantras and they are having some meaning and worship to make the good life of bridegroom. So here I try to discuss the meaning of the phere shortly.
First vow-bridegroom takes the oath that they will accept the family of each other and always be respectful with them. The bride always tries to avoid the things that harm their family.
Second vow-they will always maintain the love and trust between them to live the good life.
Third vow-they will always be the partner of joy as well as sorrows as they become the Ardhangini of the other means the half body part of other
Fourth vow-it said that you would always fulfill the responsibility towards your family.
Fifth vow-You will teach your children with the love trust and fulfill their all responsibility
Sixth vow- healthy, self control and life is full of peace.
Seventh vow-they will become their life partners for the whole life with love.

Than after doing g the phere the bride and groom takes the ashirwad means the blesses of all and than brides vidai is done than bride started the journey of his new home.

Successful Love Marriages are a rarity these days. The thing is that real Love and Compatibility is hard to come by in the contemporary hustle and bustle of life. People have become so career oriented, that they have little or no time to think about love. The very definition of love has changed; it’s become more of Carnal Love; rather than anything else. As long as one’s physical needs are satisfied; it’s alright. It’s too many women; with too many pills these days. On the other hand Men simply shoot to thrill. You find both men and women these days saying “I eat when I feel hungry” and its quite understandable what they mean.
However, there are some real life successful Love Marriages which have become world famous. For instance the Love Marriage of the all famed John Bon Giovi, better known Bon Jovi. He married his high-school sweetheart and is happily married till date and is a very loving and caring Father too. The other successful Love marriage is that of Angus Young; from the greatest Rock Band ever AC/DC. In Bollywood there is no better example than that of Amitabh Bacchan and Jaya Bahaduri. They have been married for over 32 years now and their Love Marriage has stood the test of time. Infact, with each passing year their bond has strengthened.

If we will write about Indian tradition than it become the myth because every Indian custom has some meaning and the way to do the same. The word suggests that kanyadaan is giving the daughter. A daughter is just like the paddy that grows on the different place and harvest on the different place means daughter will grow in the motherhouse and after the marriage, the husband home is the home of the daughter. In this custom the father give the bride to the groom’s hand (called hastmilap) and that time the daughter is becomes others. In this system the groom is considered as the great lord (bagman) Vishnu. There will be a shower of flowers and rice. Flowers make the life full of fragrance and rice represent the akshat means that never lost The groom takes the right hand of bride and takes the oath to take the responsibility of the bride as their beloved. It is the sad moment for the parents when their right is lost on his daughter and they will not see her in his home. So after taking the vows and ashirwad the bride started her new life of her own home.

According to the stories by our grand mother and father and some after reading the articles about the Indian shadi there are the four stages or parts of any human being.e.i in which the second is grahast period. In this period the human is having the married life. First the parent selects the bride for groom and matches the kundli. This is the way that the parent matches the behavior of the two by seeing their planets. This is most old system coming from the mahabharat and Ramayana period. It is also said that ram and sita are having the kundli that matches with 32 qualities means that pair is made for each other and there would not be any difference in there behavior and the marriage life is good.
In Hindu marriage not only the family of bride and groom but also the relatives friend and other members of the nearby area are involved in the marriage. Other day for the engagement is decided before marriage it is called sagai, misri or ring ceremony. On that day they exchange the ring .on that daygirl painted the hand with mehndi and write his husband name on her hand. It will strengthen the bond of eternal love.
On the shadi day dance ceremony haldi ceremony is done before marriage in halsi the relative put kacchi haldi on the bride and groom and it will make the shine on the face as well as darkens the colour of mehndi all the relatives enjoy by dancing.thes custom of dance is mostly done in Punjab and Gujarat. The home is decorated with flowers and light. On the marriage shubh lagn means the pandit search the safe and good period that makes the marriage success, the 7 vows are done between the bride and groom. in this period the worship of air water land heat (agni) with all the devata is done.
Than the bride and the groom takes the ashirwad of the family and farewell of groom takes place with lot of tears in the eyes of her relatives.
Hindu marriage custom are the mark of its diversified tradition and religion that’s why the western countries like our custom and wanted to adopt these custom to make their wedding unforgettable.