Saat Phere

Agni is the most holy thing treated in the all the religion. That’s why in the wedding time Agni dev is invited to be the witness of the saat phere for the bridegroom. As all the Hindu marriage are having some difference in the tradition but saat pher, kanyadaan, haldi and mehndi customs are almost done in all the marriages. Saat phere are also called saptapadi all the phere are done with some mantras and they are having some meaning and worship to make the good life of bridegroom. So here I try to discuss the meaning of the phere shortly.
First vow-bridegroom takes the oath that they will accept the family of each other and always be respectful with them. The bride always tries to avoid the things that harm their family.
Second vow-they will always maintain the love and trust between them to live the good life.
Third vow-they will always be the partner of joy as well as sorrows as they become the Ardhangini of the other means the half body part of other
Fourth vow-it said that you would always fulfill the responsibility towards your family.
Fifth vow-You will teach your children with the love trust and fulfill their all responsibility
Sixth vow- healthy, self control and life is full of peace.
Seventh vow-they will become their life partners for the whole life with love.

Than after doing g the phere the bride and groom takes the ashirwad means the blesses of all and than brides vidai is done than bride started the journey of his new home.